Hey ladies,

In my previous post I gave you some tips on what to if your husband or boyfriend doesn’t last long in bed.

In this post, I’d like to share with you another technique to help your boyfriend last longer in the bedroom – it’s called the Stop-Start Technique.

The good thing about this technique is that you can experiment with it without even mentioning to your man that you want him to last longer. Love-making will be different and requires you to be in control (on top) but you can explain that away by telling him you just want to try something new.

During regular sexual intercourse with the same partner, you will begin to pick up signs that his orgasm is close. This could be a facial expression, a sound that he makes or the tensing of his muscles. When you think he is close to ejaculation, stop the intercourse to prevent him from ejaculating and move on to oral sex, hand stimulation or just kissing.

Repeat this three times and on the fourth time allow him to ejaculate.

As well as the short term benefit of your sexual intercourse lasting longer, there is also a long-term benefit of ‘teaching’ the man’s body to last longer in bed.

If your man already knows he has problem, he can be in control of the thrusting, stopping himself when he feels close to ejaculation. He can also practice this technique alone when masturbating.

This method has achieved some success for a number of couples but not for everyone that has tried it so it is a matter of experimenting with it and seeing if it works for you.

You can find more tips to last longer in bed here.